DIARY Archive

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#WTF

 

Okay, so I have a question for you all and I’m trying to get to the bottom of it. I would normally never make this sort of post here but I’m trying to understand how to keep making posts here at all anymore so bare with me. Since the start of the new year there is something really weird going on with my social media and while I’m not not one to lose sleep over a couple of followers out there, I’m also a digital strategist and community manager by trade (find my geek tweets here) so it’s driving me crazy trying to get to the bottom of this. Let me say the traffic on this site is the same or more numerous than ever. But every where else you gals and guys seem to be jumping ship? Since the beginning of the year I’ve lost 1500 twitter followers, 500 facebook fans, 500 instagram followers, and now even 400 pinterest followers. In my opinion, I’m doing everything exactly the same, i.e. I don’t post more often on these platforms, I have the same style, tone of voice, agenda, content etc. Everything I post I try to do so thoughtfully, relevantly, and qualitatively. Even stranger is every time I post something it gets more facebook likes than ever or likes on instagram so it would seem that those following there are still liking what I do. However at the same time I lose followers every time! I’m seriously starting to wonder if there is some cyber smear campaign out there against me but that’s not returning any results on google either and I wonder how I should continue posting on these platforms at all. So here are my questions to those of you willing to share your insights for the sake of some qualitative research. Just be honest if you feel like sharing and your input is always valuable to me. I believe that the two way conversation in communication is the beauty of social media, in a way that only letters to the editor could capture before, so here I am taking a swing at leveraging that. I hope you will have a go with me and as always I listen to your every word with open ears! 

  1. Was it something I said or did? Did I change? 
  2. What sort of content and activity do you expect from your favorite bloggers on their social media and what makes them worth following?
  3. Are you using social media differently this year? i.e. less often, following less people, simplifying your online life? 

pastel tables and chairs at L'entincelle in Paris

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CASTLES IN THE SNOW

This month the grey ceiling that hovers above us in Paris all winter feels like it’s falling down on me. I mean this figuratively and literally, the pressure of the world just caving in my chest and making it harder to breathe. I’m sure I’m not the only one that gets this way…it’s a symptom of overwhelming responsibility and inflated hopes. People will always say to think positive and look on the bright side, but this time I think I spent all my optimism back in the year the world was supposed to end. Sometimes sadness is like the winter, you just have to wait it out. Keep yourself warm with friends and phoning home because it’s a cold world out there and were not always at our best to face it. For now, I’m okay with that. I don’t need to kick ass tomorrow before it comes as long as it snows now and then to remind me there’s still some magic left in the world. When it does I’m still brave enough to go out for a while and try something new…

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Paris poster and Paris in the snow


RIGHT:  photo by Mariell


Haleigh in the Paris snow

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LEFT: photo by Mariell


I Heart Paris in the snow

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No One Belongs Here More Than You

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This is a story about home. According to George Carlin it’s just the place where we keep all our stuff which is true, luckily most of my things are not just stuff but treasures. Home is more than that though, it’s the place you can lock the door and not let anyone in. It’s the place you can be a slob and no one else has the right to judge because it’s your house. It’s the place you can cry in the bathtub with a bottle of champagne when almost everything goes your way and you’re sad anyway because you have no one to share it with (this will happen to you too sometime in your life). It’s the place you can dance like an idiot in pajamas to the same song on repeat twenty times over (surely this has already happened to you many times in your life). It’s the place you can eat the same thing for dinner every night because you like it a lot, and wrap your head in a string of twinkle lights and take some pictures when your mind refuses to be productive after 3am. It’s the place you can sleep till noon on a Tuesday because you were up till 3am the night before wrapping your head in twinkle lights, worrying about things you can’t control, and hoping for things that no matter how hard you wish you can’t make happen. It’s the address that people who worry about you can still get through to you via the post even when you refuse to check your inbox or pick up the phone. It’s home and no one belongs there more than you.

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Sometimes I tell stories in this blog like they are about you or they are about me, because really they are about everyone. Some of the things we go through alone in life we don’t share with other people, but it doesn’t mean that no one else shares this experience. Somethings on this blog are really about that. This story is a little bit happy and a little bit sad, because that is how we all know life is. Luckily, I have a very very very happy news to announce to you on Friday…if you are wondering what it is you can snoop around on my facebook page, my twitter, or my tumblr, for some hints. I think you will all like it very much!

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